THE NINE RULES OF THE FELLOWSHIP

How members of the fellowship should conduct themselves

One

A fellow must never initiate any projects or present activities to the church without prior approval from the pastor. A members actions may not extend beyond the limitations granted by the pastor. A member may only file complaints with the paster and Fellowship Leader. These rules should be observed by each member as a symbol of fellowship and respect for the pastor and fellows. Each member should display a conduct of discipline regarding all matters within the church and community. Each member is responsible for being a role model of good moral character for the entire community. A Fellow should continually strive to maintain and uphold these rules.

Two

Each member must uphold the expected reputation for being trustworthy to all members of his church and community. A fellow must never give a false report against anyone and must never repeat or support a report against anyone if it is known to be false. If a fellow is given a harmful report against a fellow he or she must demand proof before accepting it. If a fellow overhears someone in the community giving a harmful report against the church, the pastor, or fellows he or she should be prompt in defending them. A fellow should never divulge information received from his fellows in confidence. When a fellow gives his or her word or makes a promise to a fellow he or she should do everything in their power to keep it. A fellow should always think of the rules of the fellowship before speaking.

Three 

Each member should at all times display a high level of loyalty to their fellows and their community. He or she should recognize that their fellows are their brothers and sisters, and thus, they depend on his or her contributions. Fellows should take the time to explain these expectations to their family. He or she should understand that they will be expected to perform these duties because their church and fellows regards them as a leader in their community. A member should not make unreasonable demands of their fellows.

Four

Each member should display attentiveness in offering assistance to the members of the church and community whenever assistance is requested, or a need is apparent, or if a crisis arise, or a distress call is made. He or she should make every effort to assist until the situation becomes under control or is resolved. A fellow should only provide assistance in a manner that is constructive and will help to improve the situation. He or she should make every effort to take part in fundraising activities whether along side his or her fellows, members of the church, or members of their community. A fellow should recognize that his or her attendance in church and group meetings is important because a fellow should strive to set examples for others in the church and community. He or she must display attentiveness by being present at mass and other church ceremonies because their presence is a representation of support to the pastor and to other fellows. He or she should take care to be on time out of respect for his or her fellows and pastor.

Five 

Each member should carry themselves in a manner so that everyone may consider them to be courteous.  They should address the members of their church as Brother or Sister. The should address members of their community as Ma’am or Sir. A fellow should always interact with everyone in the community in a manner that is proper and civilized. Holding the door open for a lady and the elderly, and acting with consideration for the happiness and welfare of the children and all members of the community.

Six

Each member should recognize and respect the command structure being exercised within his group. They should understand that such a structure was formed for a very good administrative reason and they should make an effort to support and uphold it. When a fellow receives instructions from the paster and group leaders they should carry them out effectively, and as a symbol of respect for the fellowship. If a fellow wishes to make a complaint, or give a report of concern he or she should do so in writing, then submit it to his proper chain of command so that it can receive the proper consideration.

Seven

Each member’s appearance and manner of speech should be observed by all members of the church and community as such that can be described as Clean, civil, and Sharp. A fellow should never give an opinion that may be thought to be offensive. He or she should never make a statement that may be considered crude or inconsiderate. A fellow should never use language that is characterized as profane. He or she should only dress in attire that promotes a good and professional character in the community.

Eight

Each member should conduct him or herself in a manner so that the members of the church will observe that he or she is a individual who is reverent. He or she must always show the Pastor their support in times when the Pastor or other church leaders are engaged in preaching the word of God. A fellow must recognize, declare, and profess that he or she is but an instrument of God who is privileged to be in the service of God to the community.

Nine

Each member should conduct himself in a professional manner at all times when engaged in projects that involves women. He must interact with the women in his church and community in a manner that suggests that he hold a high level of respect for all women, and especially those whom are married. He must understand that families are the foundation of his community and he should support and promote the principles of building a good and strong family. He should never take any action or offer any advice that could bring harm to a family, or ultimately lead to the deconstruction of a marriage or family. If a marriage is in distress the only council he may give is that which is useful in restoring the marriage. Female members should conduct themselves likewise in regards to men. A fellow should conduct himself with such discipline and mature conduct in this matter that women will consider him to be a man who is incorruptible. Even to the extent that both men and women become discouraged at the task of corrupting him.